Not long ago within our culture, there was a myth that women were not very sexual. If they were, they did not enjoy it, much. It was also not long ago that sex toys were hidden and shameful. It is safe to say that toys and aids have gone main stream. Women are inherently sexual beings and it is the time of our sexual re-awakening. Couples know that sexual intimacy is a major player in being happy together.
Not main stream sex as the photo shopped implanted poreless, sweatless, hairless flawless creatures who perform antics designed solely to keep a man's penis hard or quickly bring him to ejaculation. I'm talking pleasure, beautiful, raw, real, deep. unencumbered, uninhibited mind blowing physical pleasure and the shared intimacy required to create that state over and over and over again.
Another popular misconception is that men are only in it for themselves. They just want to blow a load and use a woman to get off. I'd venture to say that the majority of men secretly want to be the best lover that the woman he's with has ever had. So what is stopping him? Partly education, impatience, general lack of sensual awareness, but a bigger factor is the woman herself. There are men who are naturally incredible lovers but ladies, you can prime yourselves to be made love to like a sex goddess. It is a woman's responsibility to know what she needs, what she wants, what she likes and to be able to communicate that clearly to the man that she expects to give it to her.
We women know how to orgasm now. We do it easily and efficiently alone with our toys, often to the exclusion of men who just can't really get it right. It's just easier to get the job done alone. But if you had a partner whose touch set you on fire, who knew every nuance of your body and knew how it changed day to day – even hour to hour – and accommodated that. With whom you felt comfortable taking as long as you needed to to orgasm, who you knew would be more than happy to accept directions even as specific as moving his tongue over 1 millitre to the left and half a centimetre lower and going slower, yes slower, yes that is perfect... can you go faster now, and harder.... will you massage my Gpot at the same time (without breaking pace)? Press harder please, deeper.... Having your body worshiped and pleasured by a perceptive and enthusiastic lover is a treat like nothing else, if you had a man with a magic touch who could do this and take you to another world ... you'd be more of an enthusiastic participant than an avoider.
Sitting around reading 50 shades of grey and then getting off alone is not going to ever fully satisfy you, nor is your ideal fantasy man going to spring up out of nowhere forcing you from passivity and magically turn you into the sex goddess you know you really are. But YOU can be proactive and learn exactly what your body needs and how to communicate that to a man so that he can do it to you and for you. Yes, even the annoying ones who pester and guilt you and sigh over not getting sex this weekend and seem to turn you off more with every irritating word they say after 10 years of doing the same thing. Men, bless them, are willing to learn and like nothing more than to see us in ecstasy. And you know what? Allowing him to do this to you and for you will bring you closer together emotionally, resentments magically dissolve once ecstatic exchanges come into play. Truly.
There is a movement towards sensual massage for women. Legitimate bodywork from educated and skilled passionate professionals of integrity, that heals emotional wounds, elevates body image, increases responsiveness and sexual interest, libido, invigorates and teaches a woman about her body. Teaches her to have the power to communicate and get her needs met. It is an environment like no other, safe, comfortable environment of exploration where the full focus is on your body and your needs.
The time has come where women are waking up, reclaiming their sexuality. They are not playing the victim or passive creature of sexual neglect. We want, crave, and expect sexual satisfaction and amazing intimacy in our lives and realize now that it is up to us to create it.
I predict that within a relatively short period of time, massage for women's sensual awakening and education is going to be as mainstream and considered NECESSARY as vibrators, dildos, sex toys, lingerie and other erotic aids.
Cognizant BDSM is taking an aim of trust and mindfulness utilizing built up standards to make a progression of development between the Dom and Sub to entered a changed head space.
Tantra is an eastern act of making a sexual vitality balance inside the body and there are numerous approaches to encourage that mending.
The two practices power people to confront numerous hindrances that have been made by past encounters and simultaneously a road for constructive investigation in the sexual and unusual domains. Both require a colossal measure of trust and consensual discussion so as to have a sense of security enough to completely forsake any apprehensions and yield to the mending energies that BDSM and Tantra can bring.
Breath-work is an immense part to the two practices and you will be told methods on the best way to use breath so as to develop the experience. Breath will help with edging of sexual vitality and capacity to take high improvements, for example, sway play among different types of play.
Notwithstanding the hypothesis we will have handy workshop based fragments:
Yoni and Lingham knead - The back rub is a perfectly unwinding and sexy experience making a focal point of touch and care that is absolutely about the recipient so as to initiate and move sexual vitality.
BDSM strategies - D/S vitality play, sense play, effect and body control are ways we will use to additionally enter sub and dom head spaces with association with the physical and mental pieces of our being.
Breath procedures - Kundalini Cobra, body electric sippy, profound/denied crimp breaths are utilized to make an elevated state for orgasmic stream to stay high without discharge for longer timeframes previously permitting oneself to arrive at a psychological and additionally physical peak/discharge, anyway one can hold this vitality without peak/discharge also.
Mixing - We mix the different methods together to make a progression of push and maneuver elements into a delightful and satisfying scene/meeting.
After Care - significant angle for the two practices to make a snapshot of reflection, safe mending and care post meeting/scene.
The sort of massage that I have designed and cultivated breaks some thing belief you previously had approximately rub down and even touch itself. I even have come to reinvent it for us. Let's start right here, with a touch explanation:
Unlike regular rubdown, tantric rub down is extra about the emotional, creative and active knots that we accumulate, repress or distract ourselves from in our present day lives. The particular techniques that I use searching for to create deep consciousness, peace and exquisite feelings to ultimately soften away those tensions and bring profound clarity to you. I even have designed a international-encompassing enjoy that takes you outdoor of what is familiar and into a sphere in which you begin to see and feel your self under new perceptions, which lead to new approaches of being. It may be each reassuring and igniting. At all instances, I intuitively follow your story, your sacred intentions, your breath and your innate language. My first and most important purpose with you is so one can feel complete comfort for your personal pores and skin, and from here, everything else follows.
TOUCH IS SACRED BECAUSE IT IS AS ESSENTIAL AS SUNLIGHT
At the center, we posses feminine and masculine gifts in intimacy. You and I proportion this world, these languages and these energies. My cause is to mindfully show you what you have by no means forgotten. At its essence, contact deeply connected to our instincts, our recollections and our emotions. It lifts us out of the ordinary and into the mythic. It immediately nudges awake the primal, the human and the divine interior you, and venerates all 3 characteristics equally. It pursuits to show the secret of the human soul–and this is if you want to witness for your self. As an art-form, it reminds us of our natural inclination to beauty, of contact and being touched, of creating, of affection, of belonging, of being alive.
The revel in that I offer to you is consequently holistic, that is to mention it sees you as a frame, a thoughts, and a soul, and everything in among. I preserve every issue of who you're and each single a part of your frame with equal significance. This is why agree with and consciousness are essential factors of foundation for us. In reality, they may be moveable tonics to assist ease ache, envision new opportunities, increase into bliss and surrender to the prevailing second. By trusting yourself and the character taking you on this contact adventure, being prone definitely start to be a very powerful and freeing nation. When tantric rubdown is achieved on this way, it is able to be very an awful lot a catalyst that takes you from repression to expression. You loosen up away from wondering and doing, and also you pass into feeling and being. Once right here, you always discover your self below a new light. The technique is both very gradual and theatrical, in that has a plot and it's far innovative, delicious and deeply moving. It indicates you all opportunities and spectrums of what conscious contact can be so that you can end up the total expression of who you without a doubt are.
We're coming into an age of touch starvation, postponed pleasures, growing tensions and instabilities. In these converting and decisive times, what I do is so essential now. I am right here to guide all people, in person and without a doubt, from anywhere within the global.
This sensual enjoy of self-discovery seeks to gradual us down, to nourish us, make us go inward, and gently urge us to come to be the physical and transcendent creatures we have been born to be. I welcome you for your native land, into your very own feminine and masculine magic, your creative hearth and your inner capability in tangible and enormous methods.
We are bountiful: we come collectively to develop, to love, to create and empower. At any age and from any origins, we all convey our personal specific memories to release us, each written in our memory and under our skin. These testimonies hold the key. Are you geared up to obtain it?